Dear Lady, Be Independent. Start Paying your bills.

Hello everyone, long time no post. I am very sorry, I’ve not been faithful to this blog like I used to. I will blame it on work, the preparation for my book launch. Now that the launch is over, I can concentrate fully here. I hope I’m forgiven?

Anyway, today I have an article on a very pressing and socially hyped topic. Read More »


Prior to when I read this book I was one of those that criticized Toke for writing a “must tell” book. While reading reviews and opinions online, I had already formed a negative opinion about the book and Toke’s intention. From what I had read online, the book contained shocking details. Anyway I kept telling myself, Babe just calm down and read the book first; thank God I did.

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