I remember that day; I was visiting Derin, my cousin, at her office in VI. I was in the waiting area, seated across a window, overlooking a large body of water. I had never seen the colour of water but for that day, it was blue, I was fixated on it, enjoying the calmness and peace it brought me. I noticed the beauty of the waves, how slow it was. For the first time that day, I was calm, nothing seemed to matter at that moment, I was mesmerised by the joy the river brought. Read More »
Hello Ladies and Gentlemen, I hope you all are doing exceptionally well? I personally I’m not, but I’ll be fine. Today’s post is dedicated to Mature Single Ladies, when I say mature I mean from the age of thirty (30) and above.
Age 30 is the age, that people begin to pray unsolicited marriage prayers for you, your parents begin to wonder what the hell is wrong with you, most of your mates are married with some having at least two(2) children, age 30 is that age in this country where people treat your singleness as an abomination.
Hello everyone, I hope we all had a great holiday, today I will like to talk about Paternity fraud. Before I delve into my thoughts about this trending topic, let’s define what Paternity fraud is.
Paternity fraud is the pretence that a man is the legitimate and biological father of a child. It usually occurs when a woman deliberately misidentifies a man as the biological and legitimate father of her child. This fraudulent act led the man to believe a biological connection with a child of another man and sometimes remain undetected for several years. In most cases, women are often aware that the presumed biological father is not genetically linked with the child. Read More »
The 5th of February is a day I will never forget. I was in a bus on my way home, when I got a text from my sister.
It was a cool evening, the wind blew gently against my skin, but suddenly I began to feel hot, so hot I wanted opening the windows only for me to discover the bus windows were wide open and I wasn’t in my room. Read More »
I don’t know how many of you watch the popular web series Skinny Girl in transit (#SGIT) by Ndani TV. I stumbled upon it last two years and since then, I’ve been hooked.
In fact, I used to share the series on my blog up till season 4 you can check that here. After season 4 I became disappointed with the series and I told myself I wasn’t going to watch again because I felt, what else do they want to do? Read More »
I have no intention of scaring you on this lovely day, but I came across some really heartbreaking statistics about Nigeria which I feel compelled to share. When I read the statistics I became burdened about the state of morality in our country Nigeria.
Fact 1: Nigeria has the second largest HIV epidemic in the world and one of the highest rates of new infection in sub-Saharan Africa.
The size of Nigeria’s population means 3.1 million people were living with HIV in 2017. Read More »
Hello everyone, long time no post. I am very sorry, I’ve not been faithful to this blog like I used to. I will blame it on work, the preparation for my book launch. Now that the launch is over, I can concentrate fully here. I hope I’m forgiven?
Anyway, today I have an article on a very pressing and socially hyped topic. Read More »
A few years ago, I went to visit my friend impromptu. I got to her house, knocked on the door but her brother answered.
In front of me was a hot piece of caramel ice cream. He had sexy eyes, muscular body, complete six packs, Jesus I couldn’t get my eyes off his body. In fact I wanted to run my hands over his abs and feel his muscle. Jeezzzz. Read More »
A few years ago, there was this guy I really liked, like reallllyyyyyyy liked. We were always chatting, it made me happy. I thought to myself, finally and at last, something will happen between me and this boy. Read More »
In a Whatsapp group I belong to, someone shared a story of how she’s afraid to have a relationship; a relationship in this sense; between a man & a woman.
At the time she shared her fears, I didn’t comment because I felt other people had done justice to her question.
But thinking about it later, I wish I had because I had once been that girl and sometimes I am still that girl who once feared the opposite sex, going into relationships, getting married, the whole nine yards. Read More »