Hello everyone, I hope you guys are doing great.

This is a formal invitation to the Launch of my First book, Virginity Under Attack and the Celebration of my 30 decades on God’s gracious earth.

If you happen to live in Abuja or are opportune to be around then, please do me the honours and come.

God bless you and thank you for all the support.

How Can You Celebrate Like THIS???


How can you celebrate like this? How can you celebrate your birthday like this?! She said mockingly looking me over.

This was what a “mentor” told me after I had told her many months ago that I was going to celebrate my 30th birthday.

I was literally shocked; this was someone I looked up to, telling me I shouldn’t celebrate my thirtieth because I’m still single.

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Pre-Order My First Book Now


Hello everyone, Long time no Hear. My long awaited book which I have been working on is now available for Pre-Order. It is titled Virginity Under Attack.

Why did I write this book? I wrote this book out of a passion to see each & every one of us live & walk-in sexual purity. It breaks my heart each time I see the high rise in sexual immorality. It truly breaks my heart.

It came to a head one day after I had read a story on Stella dimoko korkus blog and I was so angry. So angry I was, I picked up my pen and started writing.

The book is titled Virginity under Attack, but much more than virginity is sexual purity and of which emphasis and importance is placed. You see, it is only futile and amounts to self-deception if as a single person, you claim to be a virgin yet have done anything and everything just short of sexual intercourse. You’re impure. Sexual purity begins in your heart. Purity is a heart issue. Let’s not deceive ourselves, my people say what you won’t eat don’t smell it.

Also in this book, are life experiences of different people. From Virgins (both males & females), people who have had sex before, people who got married as virgins, and people who had previously had sex before eventually getting married.

I thought it necessary to seek the life stories & examples of individuals so we can be well informed and learn.

Also in this book explicitly discussed is the sexual abuse of children. It’ll interest you to know that

1 in 4 girls experience sexual


 And 1 in 10 boys experience sexual

violence before age 18.

Also, 90% of abusers target children in their own families and children who they know well.

This book is a must have because it’s for everyone. To the individual on the journey of purpose, to the single person who’s wondering how to do relationships God’s way especially in this morally corrupt society of ours, to the married person, and the parents on how to raise sexually pure children and to keep them from abuse.

If you are a true fan of this Blog, you would know how passionate I am about Sexual Purity and I decided it was time to do something about It. This Book is a Product of that decision.
If You Would Want A Copy, Please Get In Touch. God Bless You.

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Help! I’m Afraid.

get out

The year was 2012, December precisely. I was on my way to Lagos for a friend’s wedding, the journey wasn’t convenient, but I had to be there. I was to be a bridesmaid at the wedding.

I set out on a Friday which unfortunately was a day when RCCG was holding their convention. Because of this programme there was a heavy traffic on the Lagos-Ibadan expressway. Read More »

Flee away from temptation.


A few years ago, I went to visit my friend impromptu. I got to her house, knocked on the door but her brother answered.

In front of me was a hot piece of caramel ice cream. He had sexy eyes, muscular body, complete six packs, Jesus I couldn’t get my eyes off his body. In fact I wanted to run my hands over his abs and feel his muscle. Jeezzzz. Read More »

Are You all You Wanted To Be?


Group of Diverse International Students Celebrating Graduation

This past Sunday I & my family were in Bingham University Karu for my brother’s graduation thanksgiving. During one of the presentations, the graduates were reminded not to let go of their dreams, and to pursue it at all cost.

They were asked one important question, are you all you wanted to be? When you were a little child, those dreams that you had then, are you fulfilling them now?

This question made me think about my life. I had a lot of dreams growing up. I knew what I wanted to do. I left the University with lots of hope for the future.

But Life happened. I wanted to go abroad for my Masters programme but lack of finance halted that dream. I got admission into different schools more than once. My mother later applied for a loan which was granted, but the money wasn’t paid until a day after the deadline for tuition deposit had passed.

I had never cried so much in my life. I cried and my mother cried. We both cried hot tears.

Unfortunately that event and all the previous events, made me lose hope. I couldn’t get back myself until years later.

I left school a bookworm, but right now I dread academic reading.

To all the graduates finishing school who happens to read this, please don’t give up on your dreams. Life will happen, your dreams, your goals, your vision, even your purpose will be tested. Your faith will be tested. Your friendships will be tested. You will lose friends. Family bonds will be tested. You may be pushed to your limits, but in all this please hear me clearly, DO NOT LOSE SIGHT OF WHAT MATTERS.

Have a goal, have something tangible that you want to achieve and pursue it vigorously. Don’t lose sight of what matters; please.

You know what, every successful person you know or have ever met, have once encountered failure, but the thing is they refused to give up, they kept pushing. Only failures give excuses and live by them.

Like I always say, you don’t go through challenges for nothing. There is a reason for every pain. Learn from your challenges, don’t just go through them. It may bring out of you something you never envisioned and you may be better for it. Take this from the girl who never envisaged she would one day write. I never in my wildest imaginations ever thought that I would one day become a writer, but here I am preparing to launch my first book.

As I was listening to those kids, I had tears in my eyes because I was saying to myself, may I at last become successful.

Your family has invested so much in you, everyone who knows you is praying and hoping you become successful, don’t let them down.

I am rooting for you; as always and I want you to be successful.

To every other person reading this, Are you all you wanted to be?

Thank you for reading. Wishing you all a fabulous week ahead.

PS: my first book will soon be out. Please be prepared.