International Women’s Day: Balance for Better

Good morning everyone, long time no hear. I hope you’ve been living your best life? As for me, I have tried to do just that.

Anyway, welcome to the 8th of March, the International Women’s Day. I have been ruminating these past few days on what I should write. I was clueless until last night.

Personally, I’m not a bandwagon type of person but I believe today is a day for reflection, reflecting on how far we’ve come as women, and celebrating our achievements. Read More »

Sexuality: Is the Battle Lost?

A few weeks ago, I and my brother were having a conversation and somehow the conversation drifted to homosexuals, and he was like how on earth will a guy in his right mind be sleeping with another man? That it was disgusting.

One day he randomly asked me if I had listened to Falz new album, #moralinstruction, I was like yeah, I have. As a matter of fact, I was the one who introduced him to the album, because I believe it’s one of the best ever and has a lot of things we can learn from. That conversation ended like that. Read More »

What I Learnt from my Book Launch

Hello everyone, how has 2019 been for you so far? This post has been a long time coming and I’m happy I’m finally done with it. As some of you may know, I launched my first book Virginity under Attack on the 17th of November, 2018. I learnt a lot from the before, during and after publishing the book and planning the launch event.

I decided to share my lessons because I know you all will learn a lot and also get to see the behind the scenes of what was the most memorable day of my life so far. Read More »

Lessons from #SGIT5

I don’t know how many of you watch the popular web series Skinny Girl in transit (#SGIT) by Ndani TV. I stumbled upon it last two years and since then, I’ve been hooked.

In fact, I used to share the series on my blog up till season 4 you can check that here. After season 4 I became disappointed with the series and I told myself I wasn’t going to watch again because I felt, what else do they want to do? Read More »

Welcome to 2019

This may be coming late but Happy New Year to each and every one of you.

This 2019 I implore you not to sleep on your goals. Whatever it is you want to do, whatever goal you want to accomplish, please do it now. Do not procrastinate.

Put your everything where your mouth is.

It’s time to work, Let’s GO!

May this year be to you all that you wish for and more.  Amen.

Merry Christmas is now Happy Holidays

I don’t know if this bothers you, the fact that we’re removing Christ from every damn thing; including the very celebration that is marked to celebrate His birth. 

We started with Merry Xmas now its Happy Holidays. We Christians are actually careless about our Relationship. 

Christmas is not about eating, drinking, merrymaking, tensioning other people. 

Christmas is about the birth of Christ Jesus who came to save our sins. The sacrifice he paid who being God himself, yet came in the form of flesh to deliver us from iniquity. 

Merry Christmas to you all.

The reason now & always will forever be Christ. As you celebrate, remember His Love & Sacrifice.

What is My Story?

This was the question a Pastor Mentor asked me when I told him about my book. This was a question I’ve never really thought about, so when he asked me I was kinda taken aback and I had to think well before I gave him an answer.

What is my story? Why did a young single girl write a book on Virginity or I dare say sex? What was she thinking about? Does she have the experience to write such a book? Read More »